Control (overt)

I’m putting this here just for contrast. Obviously, overt control is ordering you about and forcing you to do stuff against your will.

This may be your experience, and if it is, you have my sincere sympathies. However, I do not experience this kind of control. The control I experience was not obvious to me at all for years. I’m a little bit wiser now and the other pages in this section hit on it in a bit more detail.