Susan's abusive crap part 5

Here’s a list of one-offs. Abuses that aren’t necessarily repeating, just circumstantial.

Openly, in the car with Emma in the back, antagonizing me about how much the broadband subscription is. Openly referring to her keeping it going for her and Emma after I've moved out.

#baiting #triangulation #discard

Cooks a beef stew. Encourages me to use it the next day. I do and I also boil some of “her” potatoes in the process. She rages at me for using her potatoes claiming neither them nor the stew was for me.

#entitlement #narcissistic-rage #gaslighting

Antagonizes the hell out of Emma making her cry. Demanding to know why she was on a playdate without her approval. Emma sobbing now. I tell Susan to stop, it causes the anger to intensify. Susan openly rages about the divorce. I take out my phone and tell her I'm recording, now that she's aware, it's admissible in court (I've no idea if it is or not). Susan now takes issue with me talking about the divorce in front of Emma and changes tact now vilifying me in every possible way re the divorce to Emma.

#baiting #narcissistic-rage #triangulation #darvo

Shouting down the garden to me on a Saturday evening while I was sitting out in the summer sun drinking a glass of wine, in full voice, a performance dedicated to the neighbors “are you drinking, are you drinking again, I can't believe you're drinking again”, loud.

#smear-campaign #baiting #devaluation

Takes all the cutlery out of the drawer claiming she's hiding it, and I'll have to get my own.

#control #vindictive #entitlement

She gets obnoxious and angry with me for using one of her clothes pegs to seal a bag in the freezer. Apparently, I've ruined her peg. She proceeds to break it and dispose of it.

#obnoxious #narcissistic-rage #unreasonable

Makes an unmerciful angry fuss over demanding that I open my boot for her to look in. I open it. Asking nicely would have been sufficient. She looks in, nothing of note in there, she walks off.

#control #authoritarian #entitlement

Dental plaque is found by Emma's dentist around a couple of teeth (bottom front). In a prolonged rage, Susan blames me and informs a whole bunch of people about my neglect of Emma's teeth. She's the hero, giving instructions to my sister and another Mum about proper dental care. This was off the scale nuts. Her mother was involved, her sister was involved. Emma was crying. Emma's teeth are perfect.

#blame-shifting #smear-campaign #grandiosity #flying-monkeys

DIVORCE PROCEEDINGS: Outwardly and explicitly tells me she'll make life hell on earth for me until I move out.

#threats #vindictive #malignant-narcissist