Why do they do it? >
How?
How do they know all these tactics?
Section titled “How do they know all these tactics?”It is a communication style. Everybody has a communication style. The kinda crap they want to communicate given their warped inward perspective on everything quite simply takes them on a different life path.
Like you, their personality style took a lifetime of experiences to form and is still evolving.
It’s not intelligent, planned or pre-meditated. It’s habitual and reactive. And they are easily triggered to react.